This week in class we are learning about anti-bias education as it is related to sexual identity, homophobia, and heterosexism. I think it has to be hard for a young child to begin to feel that their self-identity is not what society deems as appropriate. I would imagine for a child who has a gender identity different from what we physically see or for a child who likes someone of the same sex, they are confused because most of their everyday things do not take into account a child that is not heterosexual. The books, toys, and movies all assume that each child is a heterosexual. I did not come across any books or movies about two moms or two dads. Storybook endings always end with the handsome prince and the beautiful princess living happily ever after.
If a parent or family member informed me that they did not want anyone who is perceived to be a homosexual or transgender caring for or educating their child, I would listen to what they are saying. I would have to take a few moments to compose myself, so I can carefully choose my words. Inside, I would feel like a confrontation was going to occur since my views are the opposite, but I would maintain composure. After I listened to their point of view, I would let them know my point of view, but I realize this will not change their mind. Next, I would let the person know that I would like for them to meet the person whom they feel uncomfortable with. My hope would be if they could meet this person as an individual, face to face, they would open up their mind. If these attempts did not work, I would have to let the person know that the person will not be let go due to their sexual orientation. I would leave it open at that point, it would be up to the parent to find other arrangements.
